Hello lovely friends and readers! We are kicking off a two week long series of guest bloggers here at the Blooming Hydrangea and here to start us off is Becky from I enjoy following Becky on her blog, fb and also her pinterest page! She has great organizing ideas for around the house and so much more. Today Becky is going to share with us how she gets her children involved in the organizingand purging of toys in their bedrooms. Who wouldn’t love to hear how to get kids to help with this! Enjoy!!!
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When either our son or daughter has a birthday coming, that means it’s time to clean out and clear out! Our son, Adam, recently had a birthday, so we spent the day clearing stuff out….and as I always tell the kids, if you don’t clean out the old stuff, you won’t have room for new stuff! That’s usually a good motivator!
So, this week’s project for my son is to clear out his stuff. We try to go through his bookshelf every couple of months – those trinkets add up! I mean, how many toy cars and rubber balls does a boy need?
He started on the bottom drawers under his closet – you’ve got to love the old houses with these great closet with storage under and on top!
He worked hard – for several hours going through papers, boxes and old toys. He turned twelve and he’s starting to realize that many of his toys aren’t so sacred anymore. He even recently sold a bunch at a garage sale to earn money for camp this summer.
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You can see he had a lot of stuff to go through. He did it without complaint and handled it well! He couldn’t wait to get to the label maker and make new labels for his newly organized closet. He did great and kept up – motivated by a birthday and presents to come! (Above) you can see a before and after of his book shelves – notice I took out one shelf. That was the shelf he tends to just throw junk up on – so I want him to learn not to rely on that shelf and deal with it right then (throw it away, put it away, file). He has file boxes labeled with:
- special papers
- magazines
- activity books
- train books and papers
When the box gets full, he has to get rid of stuff. We go through those about every three or four months and regularly purge those – schools send home WAY too much paper!
Here is a look at how many bags of toys he gave away:
This is about six large bags and then he also had three trash bags full of trash we took out as well.
This is the top of his closet, now mostly empty. And to his credit the large, clear box on the left is his dad’s memory box and the large, box on the far right is my wedding dress! Just because you have room doesn’t mean you have to fill it!
Here Rachel is also working on going through her stuff and cleaning out a little bit – although she has a lot less stuff than Adam.
Let me give you some things to motivate you and your kids with de-cluttering:
- Go through your kids stuff on a regular basis – at least pick through it every few months.
- With kids, give them limits (i.e., my kids have trinket boxes and can keep no more than 20 – same for stuffed animals, but they only get to keep five because they are the most useless things ever)
- Start them YOUNG – I have been doing this with them since they were about 2 years old making THEM go through it
- Don’t let them get distracted, stay close by and get them on to the next thing because it’s easy for them to start playing with the stuff they forgot they had
- If they choose to get rid something, don’t discourage them even if you think it’s valuable or something that surprises you. It’s THEIR stuff and if they want to give it away (perhaps you can make a family heirloom exception) – for goodness sake, let them!
- Same thing for them: One in, one out! If they have a big birthday part with 20 gifts, then make them give away 20 toys of similar size! Or, have smaller parties
- I have one kid who gets VERY sentimental and attached to so much. But we’re working on realizing that when you have 30 VERY important things, you only get to keep FIVE that are the most important and the rest get tossed or donated.
- Schedule for a charity truck to pick up the kids stuff a few days after you plan on going through it. is my favorite one since they pick up AND you can schedule it online. Also, more valuable things put on your local freecycler. is my church’s group and if you don’t have one, look for one in your city/area. We gave away six or seven of the nicer things to the group – and they went FAST!
- Label, label, label – if they can’t read, make labels with pictures of what is inside. This will teach them to read the word AND know what it’s inside – no excuses! I take pictures of the contents, then print on paper and cover with clear tape. Then, (see above picture with Rachel close up) I attached the picture with the label of what it is to the basket using . Get a big bunch of those and you’ll use them for everything!
Here is a picture of the closet organizer (before we put closet doors back on) in my daughter’s room a few years ago. I LOVE these and have been doing one closet each year when they go on sale. They aren’t cheap, but I save up all year. is the best for us since you can move it around as they grow (which this closet is already changed because her dresses got so long) and we have eliminated dressers altogether. Enjoy! Get motivated to get all that junk out of your kids’ rooms…and play areas!
Thank you Becky! I hope you will go visit Becky and give her some bloggy love! Next week we will have three guest posts that you will want to come back and check out!
Can she come to my house to help me!! Great ideas and love the before and afters in the kids room. I so need to get my girls room organized…..maybe this will be my motivation
Have a great week, hope you are well!!